Many girls, myself included, spend endless amounts of time thinking of that special someone. But what if that special someone doesn't realize his "special"status in your mind, and doesn't care to?
So there you are, spending hours thinking about this "person" who may or may not think of you in the same regards, and you're wasting valuable "you" time. You can't concentrate on your school work or focus at your job, and you're constantly checking your cell phone for missed calls and text messages. It is beginning to affect your life as a whole, and it's not functioning properly.
How do you reconstruct your thinking patterns to focus more on "you" and leave "him" where he belongs; out of sight, out of mind.
Here are some tips I have found helpful to clear your mind.
1.) A nice bike ride or walk
- Sometimes you need nothing more than some fresh air and time alone to sort out your priorities.
2.) A person to vent to
- Call a close friend who understands your situation and has their own priorities in order. Maybe they can talk some sense into you while cheering you up at the same time.
3.) A night out with your closest friends
- It's amazing how time flies when you're having fun. You won't even have time to think about him.
4.) Exercise
- An hour at the gym can pump out more than just sweat and muscles, it can cleanse your mind. You will also feel more confident!
5.) Watch your favorite comedy
- Pop in one of your favorite movies and quote every line to it.
6.) Buy something for yourself
- If the funds are available, go out and purchase those shoes you've been wanting.
After all is said and done, "you" are the only one that matters. Enjoy what life has to offer and don't sweat the small stuff.
Here is another Blogger's Idea I found interesting for getting him off your mind!
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ReplyDeleteI agree to all of the above! I make the mistake many times talking about the boy on my mind with my girlfriends instead of laughing and talking about other things. I find it important to try and talk about something else, its ok to vent but only allow yourself a good 5 min. and make sure your girlfriends know the rule too! One of my best friends reminds me while I am going on and on by simply saying; "Ok, do you feel better? Your done now lets talk about something else."
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