Tuesday, January 27, 2009

College Guy vs. College Grad


Once most ladies have reached college age, the thought of "dating a college guy" may not sound as appealing as it did in high school. If this is the case, chances are they have had one too many bad experiences with the stereotypical "college guy."


Most young women look for a man, not a guy or "boy" as some may call them, and not until after that diploma is handed to them, do those "boys" realize it's time to grow up. Everyone knows keg parties and dirty frat houses are a part of college life, but how many young, determined, confident women do you see happily running back to the frat house to spend quality time with their boyfriends. Yuck. It may be fun for a little, hanging out with the guys, but after a while you probably are just going to want a shower, or a flea bath.


So, by junior year of college, most single ladies have to search elsewhere for the next possible date. Now, you find yourself in a sea of young professionals, and you're the little college girl. My how the tables have turned. But once you have snagged your college grad, many girls realize the difference between the 21 year old boys to the 27 year old men. And no ladies, these 27 year old men do not live with their mothers. They work their jobs, pay their bills, wear their blazers and meet co-workers for dinner and drinks.


These young professionals are mature and what every young lady is looking for. But do men want a college girl? This is where things seem to get a little tricky. In my opinion, the college student title isn't an issue. It's the whole package. Men look for a confident, intelligent young woman, with her priorities in order and goals in mind. Hard work is attractive to both sexes.


If there is one thing to look for in your boy or man or whom ever you choose to date, it's someone you can lose track of time with and have a great time doing it.



1 comment:

  1. I do believe that men find college girls appealing. It's the younger woman factor. Us 21 year old, fun, spontaneous, girly girls like myself have sex appeal even in sweats and a univeristy logo tee shirt. Be carefulof the older men! They could be the "insecure not ready to grow up guys", "the glory day guys", and the "I've been married already/middle aged/family man with a wondering eye". Be careful, it is very easy to be wrapped up in a mans charm and success. Remind youreself that they are older than you, they are males, and most certainly have a past! Google is your best friend and criminal records are public. :)

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